And, if it's with a girl, how do lesbians lose their virginity? You know when you've had sex, amiright? My friends and I were talking about when we lost our virginities recently, and I said, without thinking, "15". But its position as some kind of marker seems to remain. They're not doing it in a "I just wish this was more like sex with a man " kind of way.
Emilie. Age: 28.
And, if it's with a girl, how do lesbians lose their virginity?
Jayden. Age: 29.
How Do Lesbians Lose Their Virginity?
But its position as some kind of marker seems to remain. It's one of the reasons I was always confused by people who are happy to have oral sex or hand stuff, but draw the line at vaginal sex. It may be helpful for legal purposes, but not in terms of consensual sexual expression," Amy Levine, sex coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure tells Bustle. So I would say that anything that involves genitals probably counts as lesbian sex. Seriously, the amount of people who've asked me how sex with a woman compares to "real sex". But I wasn't expecting the follow up question — was it with a girl or guy? I think it's a deeply personal thing and that, most importantly, you don't judge anyone else's experience, or assessment of their experience.